update

Gentleman, not just boy. this needs a little more thought, but i think i will soon have it. it is a man whom you can sit next to, who may tease you and cajole you and flirt with you, but who will never make that creepy crawly indecent slime slide up your spine. and when it is a boy, there is only joy. mmmuah.
and the ding, and pam. and others forthcoming. i cannot be such a happy person if i have not more than these. :) happy days are picture postcards.